About Shades of Gray

The lyrics for “Shades of Gray” were written to promote understanding of the complex characteristics involved with the diagnosis of autism and also to recognize our obligation to develop an active role in the lives of individuals with autism. Acknowledging and learning from the words and/or actions of individuals with autism are keys to developing relationships with them. It is important not only to accept individuals with autism as they are, but to know why they do what they do and act how they act. Learning an individual’s motivations can help us enter his/her world. Acceptance does not have to be a passive event, but a doorway to reciprocal understanding. As we learn from individuals with autism, we are given the opportunity to teach them to better understand their feelings and move beyond tolerance of their world to shared enjoyment.

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Shades of Gray DVD

The “Shades of Gray” DVD is a collection of photographs of a child with autism scrolling through time as the lyrics of “Shades of Gray” are sung.  The photographs in the DVD have been thoughtfully obtained and carefully selected to reflect the true intentions of the song lyrics and bring the reality and emotions of autism to life. 

The DVD is meant to be enjoyed and used as an educational tool. It is appropriate for therapists, educators, health care professionals, counselors, and students of all ages interested in learning about the behavioral characteristics of autism.  It is also meant for parents who wish to help family and friends better understand their child’s unique world.

Special thanks to Hunter and his loving mom, Jennifer, for their participation and support throughout this project.